{"id":3426,"date":"2012-03-12T03:30:24","date_gmt":"2012-03-12T10:30:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ministryofgrace.org\/blog\/?p=3426"},"modified":"2012-03-11T21:50:45","modified_gmt":"2012-03-12T04:50:45","slug":"ephesians-64-godly-parenting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ministryofgrace.org\/test\/ephesians-64-godly-parenting\/","title":{"rendered":"Ephesians 6:4 – Godly Parenting"},"content":{"rendered":"

And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Truth to Learn<\/u><\/strong><\/h3>\n

Parents should be an example of God’s love in the way they raise their children.<\/p>\n

Behind the Words<\/u><\/strong><\/h3>\n

The words “provoke … to wrath<\/span>” are translated from the Greek verb parorgidz\u014d<\/em><\/span>, which is made up of para<\/em> <\/span>meaning “near” or “beside,” implying movement toward something, and orgidz\u014d<\/em><\/span>, meaning “to provoke” or “to cause anger.” Hence, parorgidz\u014d<\/em> <\/span>literally means “to move someone to the point of anger.”<\/p>\n

The words “bring them up<\/span>” are from ektreph\u014d<\/em><\/span>. This is composed of ek<\/em><\/span>, meaning “out of” but used as an intensifier, and treph\u014d<\/em><\/span>, meaning “to stiffen or fatten;” that is, “to nourish.” Ektreph\u014d<\/em> <\/span>means “to bring up a child” or “to nurture a child.”<\/p>\n

“Training<\/span>” is from paideia<\/em><\/span>, which refers to “education and training accomplished through instruction and discipline.”<\/p>\n

“Admonition<\/span>” is translated from the Greek word nouthesia<\/em><\/span>, which is made up of nous<\/em><\/span>, referring to “the mind” or “intellect” and a derivative of thth\u0113mi<\/em><\/span>, meaning “to place” or “to stand.” The basic meaning of nouthesia<\/em> <\/span>is “to instruct by calling attention to something or by giving a warning.”<\/p>\n

Meaning Explained<\/u><\/strong><\/h3>\n

Paul’s current subject of instruction is about how we are to behave within a family. At the end of the last chapter he talked about how a husband and wife are to relate to each other. In the past few verses he talked about how we are to think and act with respect to our parents. Now he teaches how fathers (and mothers) are to treat their children.<\/p>\n

During the first century, the world was under Roman domination. With each area the Romans defeated, they imposed their laws and their lifestyle. For the most part, however, they allowed the conquered countries to continue their own religious practices as long as they recognized the emperor (Caesar) as a god also. Within Roman society the man was ruler of his household and could do almost anything he wanted with his wife and children. In that society wives and children were viewed as little more than possessions. Because of this, abuse and what we would consider crimes against women and children were commonplace in Roman households.<\/p>\n

In teaching about family relations within a Christian household, therefore, Paul addresses the role of the father more than any other member of the family. In today’s verse he tells fathers what to do and what not to do with regard to their children. First, he tells Christian fathers (and by association, Christian mothers) not to drive their children to anger. In Colossians 3:21<\/strong> <\/span>we learn that this actually causes children to become discouraged. Then, he tells fathers to educate their children, to train them, and to give them warnings about the consequences of certain actions. Paul tells them to do all this within the framework of God’s guidance and oversight.<\/p>\n

Application<\/u><\/strong><\/h3>\n

How we raise our children has a profound influence on how our children will relate to God later in life. If we demonstrate godly parenting, we can be firm, correcting, and loving all at the same time, demonstrating how God loves and treats us. Do your children see God in the way you are raising them?<\/p>\n

In God's service, for His glory,<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/strong><\/p>\n

Copyright ©<\/span> 2012 Will Krause. All rights reserved.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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